Podcasts, YouTube channels and TikToks are full of modern dating topics: “ghosting”, “situationships”, “roster culture”, “friends with benefits”, “poly dating”, “soft launching your partner”. It’s interesting, often funny, sometimes painfully real.Voices like Shan Boodram excel at unpacking these trends in a way that’s honest and non‑judgmental. That’s helpful. But if you’re a Black professional who wants a stable, mission‑aligned marriage, you can’t stop at commentary.You need a strategy for cutting through the noise.Where We Agree with Modern Dating CommentatorsThey help you name your experience. You realise, “Oh, I’m not crazy, this is a pattern.”They normalise talking about topics we used to hide: casual sex, attachment trauma, social media impact.They highlight common pain points – ghosting, emotional unavailability, lack of clarity.This awareness is step one. Naming a wound is better than pretending it doesn’t exist.Where We Go FurtherOur question is always:“How do we move from talking about the problem to building something different?”For us, that means:Instead of just complaining about situationships, we teach you to opt out of them through standards and screening.Instead of just analysing red flags, we help you build a clear blueprint of green flags tied to your purpose, faith and values.Instead of staying stuck in app culture, we create offline and curated paths to meet serious, compatible partners.We respect the “modern dating topic” universe. But we’re not trying to just talk about chaos; we’re trying to engineer stability – one couple at a time.From Conversation to CommitmentThe Relationship Readiness Masterclass is where you take everything you’ve heard online and turn it into:a personal relationship strategy,clear non‑negotiables,and an action plan to find – and be – a healthy partner.From there, the Matchmaking Readiness Audit and 1,000 Couples Challenge plug you into a serious, structured pathway toward the marriage you actually want.