What Stephan’s Books Get RightBooks like “He’s Lying, Sis” and other Stephan Labossiere titles resonate because they:Name behaviours (“breadcrumbing”, emotional unavailability) women have felt but couldn’t explain.Validate that your discomfort is real, not “overreacting.”Encourage women to detach from men who are clearly not serious.For many Black women, these books are the first time someone says:“You’re not crazy. This behaviour is.”We fully support that. Naming the pattern is often the first step in breaking it.Where Our Model Goes FurtherThe limitation is that book insight often stays at the level of individual bad actors:“This is how you know he’s lying.”“These are signs he’s using you.”Necessary—but incomplete. We ask deeper questions like:Why are you consistently drawn to this type of man?Which unresolved beliefs or family patterns make this behaviour feel “normal”?How is your selection process set up so that this man even got a seat at the table?We care less about labelling one man a liar, and more about re‑engineering your soil so those seeds don’t grow at all.How We Translate These Insights in Our FrameworkWe build on Stephan’s books by doing three things in our programs:Diagnosis (Audit): In the Relationship Readiness Audit, we walk through your dating history almost like a forensic team: where did you ignore data? What did you not know to look for?Rewiring (Masterclass): In the Masterclass, we train you to read red flags faster, set firmer standards, and design a dating process that filters for compatible, serious partners.Execution (1,000 Couples Challenge): In the Challenge, you apply this new discernment while actively positioning yourself to meet marriage‑minded, values‑aligned matches.Think of Stephan’s books as the X‑ray. Our work is the treatment plan and rehabilitation.