When you are eager to find love, it is easy to overlook warning signs. But spotting red flags early can save you from heartache later. Here are ten dating red flags that Afro-Caribbean singles (and anyone, really) should never ignore:They discourage you from speaking up: If you feel like you’re walking on eggshells or they dismiss your opinions and feelings, watch out. Respectful communication is non-negotiable.Inconsistent or secretive communication: Today they are blowing up your phone, tomorrow they vanish without explanation. Consistency matters. Also beware if they are oddly secretive about basic details of their life.They make disrespectful remarks about your culture or family: Someone who jokes insensitively about your Afro-Caribbean background, or belittles your family values, is waving a giant red flag.Extreme jealousy or controlling behaviour: Do they get upset when you hang out with friends or check your phone? Early signs of jealousy or control tend to worsen over time. You deserve trust and freedom in a relationship.Love-bombing followed by coldness: If they are showering you with compliments, gifts, and “I have never felt this way” talk within days of meeting, it could be love-bombing. Often, love-bombers flip to withdrawal or criticism once they feel they have “hooked” you.They push past your boundaries: You set a boundary, whether it is “I do not want to rush intimacy” or “Please do not call me at work,”, and they ignore it or try to guilt you about it. Huge red flag. Boundaries must be respected (no exceptions).Lying or inconsistent stories: Trust your gut. If their anecdotes do not add up or you catch them in a lie (even a small one), it might signal bigger honesty issues. Honesty is the foundation of any healthy relationship.Negative past relationship talks: Everyone has baggage, but if they only speak about exes as “crazy” or take no accountability for past breakups, that is a bad sign. It may hint at unresolved issues in how they handle conflict.Friends and family red alerts: Sometimes your loved ones notice bad vibes before you do. If friends or family express concern about how this person treats you, listen. They have your back.Your own intuition says something’s off: Do not underestimate the power of your gut feeling. If you sense something is not right, even if you ca not put your finger on it, pay attention. Often your instincts pick up on subtle cues of disrespect or incompatibility.Remember, one or two small missteps (like occasional texting delays) might not be deal-breakers. But the behaviours above are serious red flags. Your well-being and core values come first, never ignore persistent signs that someone is not treating you right. There are plenty of respectful, caring people out there who will