Priya and David matched on a dating app and exchanged the usual pleasantries. But soon the chat stalled. “How was your day?” “Good, yours?” “Fine.” And then… silence. Priya had seen this pattern before, where promising matches just faded due to lackluster conversation. Determined to break the cycle, she tried something new with the next match. When she connected with Sam, she noticed in his profile that he loved comic books. Instead of the standard “How is your weekend?” opener, she asked, “If you could have any superpower for a day, what would it be?” Sam lit up at the question, and their conversation took off, branching into childhood memories of superheroes and funny what if scenarios. They found themselves eagerly checking the app for each other replies, each message getting longer and more engaging. By the time they met in person, it felt like they had known each other for ages.Keeping a conversation alive online can be challenging in fact, many matches never even get off the ground in terms of real dialogue. But with a bit of effort and creativity, you can turn a dull chat into a connection that has momentum. The key is to spark interest and give the other person something to respond to, while also listening and building on what they share.Tips for Great Online Conversation:Ask Open Ended Questions: These are questions that cannot be answered with just “yes” or “no.” They invite stories and opinions. (“What do you like to do on a rainy Sunday?” will go farther than “Do you like movies?”)Find Flattering Follow ups: When they do share something, ask more about it or share your related experience. If they say they love cooking, you might ask about their favorite dish to make, and perhaps share one of yours. It shows you are genuinely interested.Mix Light and Meaningful: A good chat has a rhythm. Do not be afraid to be playful or tease a bit when appropriate (kindly, of course) but also show you can engage on deeper topics when they come up. This balance keeps things interesting and builds a real connection.Call to Action: Next time you find a conversation fizzling out, do not let it die quietly. Take the initiative to inject a new question or topic that you are genuinely curious about. And if you are the one always answering with one word replies, challenge yourself to give a fuller answer or toss a question back. A little extra effort in those chats can be the difference between yet another stalled match and one that leads to an amazing date.Sources: mentorresearch.org