Black Dating: Communication 101: How to Talk (and Listen) to a New Partner After Years Off the Market
If it has been a long time since you dated, you might feel like a fish out of water trying to communicate with someone new. In marriage, especially a long one, couples develop shorthand, habits (good or bad), and comfort where you do not have to think so much about how you talk. But with […]
Black Dating: Finding Your Relationship Non-Negotiables: How to Date Without Settling
One of the perks of having been through a marriage (even one that ended) is that you likely have a clearer sense of what you absolutely need in a partner and what you absolutely cannot tolerate. These are your non-negotiables. The challenge is that, in the excitement or loneliness of dating, it is easy to […]
Black Dating: How to Know If You’re Ready to Date Again After Divorce
One of the most common questions after a split is: “When will I know I am ready to date?” It is wise not to rush in blindly, but also important not to stay on the sidelines forever out of fear. The reality is, you do not get a neon sign blinking “Ready!” One day, readiness […]
BlackB Dating: 7 Post Divorce Dating Myths You Probably Believe (and Why They are Wrong)
Divorce might have freed you from a marriage, but it can leave behind mental baggage, namely, some pervasive myths about dating and love that just are not true (though they feel true). These myths can discourage you from even trying, or they can lead you to approach dating in unhelpful ways. Time to bust them! […]
Black Dating: The Five Skills You Didn’t Know You Need for a Great Relationship
When we think about relationship “skills,” many of us draw a blank. Love is supposed to just happen naturally, right? Well, yes and no. Chemistry and attraction might spark on their own, but keeping a relationship healthy and happy, especially the second time around, takes certain core skills. Unfortunately, these aren’t usually taught in school! […]
Black Dating:Why Finding ‘The One’ Is Not About Luck, It Is About Strategy
Do you ever look at happy couples and think, “They are so lucky to have found each other”? It is a common thought, especially if you have been through a divorce and feel like lightning will not strike twice. But the idea that love is all about luck is a myth. Finding “The One” has […]
Black Dating: Intentional Dating: How to Approach Your Love Life Strategically
If you are tired of leaving your love life up to chance or endless swiping, it is time to bring a bit of strategy into romance. Intentional dating is the practice of approaching finding a partner with clarity, purpose, and a proactive mindset. That does not mean sucking the spontaneity or fun out of […]
Black Dating: Balancing a High-Powered Career with Dating: Finding Time for Love
Between back-to-back meetings, business trips, and the never-ending email flow, modern professionals often struggle to find time and energy for dating. It is a common refrain: “My career is thriving, but my love life is languishing.” The good news? You do not have to sacrifice your ambition to find a great relationship; it is about […]
Black Dating: Overcoming Dating Burnout: Tips for Busy Professionals Tired of Apps
Swipe, chat, date, repeat… and end up exhausted. If that cycle feels painfully familiar, you might be experiencing dating burnout. Busy professionals often find modern dating, particularly app-based dating, to feel like a part-time job that yields little ROI (return on investment) emotionally. The good news is, if you are feeling burned out by the […]
Black Dating: 5 Ways to Meet Quality Singles (That Are Not Dating Apps)
Tired of swiping through dating apps and getting nowhere? You are not alone. While dating apps are a popular way to meet people these days, they are not the only game in town, and for many professionals, they might not even be the best game. If you are looking to meet quality singles who share […]